sreda, 21. december 2016


Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. People nowadays are always complaining about how much closer they'd be with their significant other if it wasn't for distance. Your family may discourage it, and some of your friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. These people think that distance is a barrier, but i think othervise. Distance is just a test of how strong relationship is.

Nobody says it is going to be easy. Nobody says how great experience this can be and nobody say how this can change your mind on better .
Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. However, the extra distance also make the simplest things the sweetest, being able to hold the other person's hand, eating together at the same table, feeling each other's touch, talking a walk together,.. these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long distance relationship.  
Long distance relationship may be tough but it has it's own surprises too.

I was absent for several months because of this and I wanted to devoted time to myself. Also, I need some time alone to handle things and put them in order.

As you know, I have some friends from other countries. My best friend (Natalia) is from Poland and I know her for the longest time (4 years) and she is a proof that long distance frienship is real!
Other friends are from Germany, France and Algeria. These people have changed my view on the world, I have learned a lot about myself, I learned new languages and I learned more about their culture and so on. I become better person and these people were standing next to me and makes me happy more time than people who are significantly closer to me and that I see them more time. But big thanks goes to Natalia and one more person who inspired me with this friendship/relationship.

If you have best friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, crush, relatives miles away, or you know someone who is in this situation. Then you are in the right place.

In this story I wanna give you best tips how to work long distance relationship. Also I alot of people don't support this, becase they see negative, unrealistic things and they thought that this is a waste of time. This is your opinion and it's okay to think like that but have you ever thought about how this effects on us? 

They said:
"He/she will break your heart."
" Do not put hopes in a common future."
"Stop living in a fairy tale."
" That is stupid."
"You're weird."...

If you are not in this situation never say this words, because this negative words hurt more than everything else. Here play a very, very strong emotions. Who says that in "real life", nobody can break your heart? You can be broken in any situation. And if someone breaks your heart in the real world it is difficult to transfer this, because you saw this person and you felt the touch.

Distance is hard, really hard and no one else quite understands. There are more reasons to fight, to cry, to smile, to break up. But distance also gives us a reason to love harder than any other couple should. To fight harder, because in the end we have something gain. We may be seperated by space and time, but the bond between coupls who push through the hardest of time is the strongest.
Head vs. heart ? Always follow your heart!

Long distance relationships are so much more serious and meaningful that short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such strong faith and trust in a person to know that they won't cheat or lie. And honestly is also so important. Lots of honest and patience. Plus I think this is so much cuter and you respect love and life more and more.
It's hard to have someone who mean so much to you, and you to them. Not being able to hold them, kiss them, or spend precious moments together. But finally getting on a plane or driving hours to see that person, and spending days together with them, being together in each other's presence is the most memorable, wonderful, romantic thing ever.

When  two people are meant for each other, no time is too long, no distance is too far, and nobody can keep them apart.!

Long distance relationship teach you who is your real friend. You appreciate every second talking with this person who is miles away. You wish for good internet connection. People who are miles away can make me more happy and better than friends who are closer. I admit that sometimes is hard to trust them, but in the end you see that this person is more trust worthy.

You still think long distance relationships are stupid and never succeed? I will just say; Love will find a way! And your thoughts remind me of someone who is not ready for this, you're not mature enough, you're afraid to try something that is not everyday, you don't have patience... Honestly I rather date somebody who's perfect for me and put up with the distance than put up with being treated like shit by some idiot who lives closer.
As I have already said is in this situation are a lot of thought, emotions, psyche, games, big challenge and so on. So I will give you some tips how to deal with this.

It is important for the both of you to know that you are equally committed  to developing the relationship and that both of you are on the same page when it comes to investing your time and energy into it. Be open.
"If you want to live together, you first need to learn how to live apart."
If you already know that he/she is going to the club or going drinking with a group of friends, then you should not do from this a big deal and you should not prohibition of socializing with friends.
Talk about your feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy ,...If you try to hide anything from your partner, that secret will sooner or later swallow you up from inside out.Be real, be yourself.
Social media plays a big part of this. Try to find best time for talking on skype, messenger,.. Like each other's photo on Facebook/Instagram, tag each other, share things. Show that you care. Be cool about stalking each other.
You need to be constantly injecting positive energy into the long distance relationship to keep it alive. Yes, the waiting can be painful and you can sometimes feel lonely, but you need to remind yourself that the fruits at the end will be sweet as heaven. One good trick to staying positive is to be grateful all the time. Be thankful that you have someoneto love- someone who also loves you back. Be thanful for the little things.Also you have to be surrounded with real friends for support and help.
A relationship would last if both of you are ready not to give up, stand up and still try and fight every time when one of you or both of you fall. You should not lose hope when you are struch with problems .
And remember : Distance means so little when someone means so much! If people tell you opposite first at all ignore them and as a second they are jealous of you, because you have so great relationship with your soul mate.

If you have problems with long distance relationship you can contact me and I will help you. If you have an experience or a story about a friend, boyfriend, girlfriend... on a long distance and would you like that I publish the story, you can contact me on social networks, or on my gmail: